Is the iss duty to br healer ?

well for sure i can speak till 95 but the thing is noone had brez as i said so i was going with my alts at zaken for brez and my husband kept them to rez me as you said bots had money and brez and since we didnt bot it was kinda hard to buy brez.i suppose when you are at 97+ you have another philosophy you know your char better and you dont die for fun as some may do at low lvls.ofc there is always the option to take op dmg from mobs and instadie.noone can say something there.but noone is oblige to brez healer when he die cause of his mistake only.i have met healers for example who are in fortuna at the boss with the big aoe dont remember the name(it does the skill death lotus) and instead of stay at max (heal)range which helps them not die they go next to rb and die 1 aoe.in such cases its only healers fault i guess.